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Spirituality and Giving Back

Spirituality

Spirituality is a big part of who I am today. As I mentioned on our welcome page, my life was empty although it appeared I had it all. That is until I took a trip to the Holy Land with my Bishop and First Lady. The trip was timely and life changing!   I realized that the life I lived is not what Jesus paid the price for.

Now don’t get me wrong, I grew up in the church. I was baptized with my husband in 2003 and again in the Jordan River in Israel. I was no stranger to Christ. I knew that when things went wrong, He was the person to call on. However, I did not have an intimate relationship with Him. I would seek His hands and not His face. As you know, God is intimate. He is a master lover. Nothing is conceived with God without intimacy.

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When I returned from my trip, all of that changed. I was on fire! I went to Bible study and church every week and, when I wasn’t in town, I would catch the sermon on the Internet via streamingfaith.com. I listened very closely to the message the man of God was delivering.   It was always relevant to me at the time. I studied the Word everyday. It was suggested to me to read one of the modern translations (New International Version) for an easier read. My prayer life was enriched and I intentionally made a decision to try to surrender to God’s will daily. My entire outlook on life changed.

I realized that my life is not about me, but about me advancing the kingdom. What I had planned fit the world and what God has planned for me, fits the kingdom. I recognize my authority and accept my humility. Grace is greater than all sin. When he exposed my “stuff”, he covered me in grace.

I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. There is stuff that I cannot see that I am getting ready for. The prophets are speaking it into the atmosphere. I am just a vessel, and I try to be a walking manifestation of the invisible God. I truly believe God has given me a national platform as a stepping stone to have influence in the lives of nations. 

Please understand. I am not claiming to be holier than thou, nor am I claiming to know it all.   In fact, all of my newfound knowledge and understanding was taught to me by my spiritual father, Bishop Eddie L. Long (Senior Pastor of New Birth Missionary Baptist Church). I am just taking what I learned, applying it to my life, and sharing it with you. My prayer is that you can become just as excited as I am to experience the unconditional love of God.

Never lose sight of the fact that God is in control of your life. You must believe that God can deliver you. You need to put fear and doubt out of the way and believe in God. Faith works whenever there is faithfulness and obedience. Walking in obedience is difficult but necessary. Faith always requires some action and is understood to be boundless and timeless. Get rid of the fear and doubt by receiving the love of Jesus Christ.

Giving Back

Luke 12:48 (NKJ) says “For everyone to whom much is given, from him much will be required; and to whom much has been committed, of him they will ask the more.”

I’ve always known it was important to give back. I was the beneficiary of kindness when I was younger, and once I had the opportunity to impact the lives of others, it was a no-brainer. My husband and I are both very active in the community. We even get the boys involved. Each of us has our own non-profit organizations. Eric’s is Shoot 4 the Moon and mine is the DeShawn Snow Foundation. We understand fully that we are blessed to be a blessing. We strive to be rich in a way that is pleasing to God and we hope to bless generations. This is another reason I know that if we continue to be obedient, He will continue to bless us — He knows our hearts.

The great thing about giving back is that I ultimately end up helping myself more than I do the people I am providing the service to. It is almost as though I am healing my soul – especially with the young girls I help with my foundation. If you ever find yourself feeling emotionally low, I challenge each of you to volunteer at your local hospital, shelter, nursing home, etc. This is a great way of getting outside of your own pain for a while, and it encourages someone else at the same time.

Another way to give back is through your tithes and offering. Everything we own belongs to God. We are stewards of all that God entrusts us with. His trust includes money, our gifts and abilities, our minds and intellect, our bodies, and how we use our time.

Yours, O LORD, is the greatness, the power and the glory, the victory and the majesty; For all that is in heaven and in earth is Yours; Yours is the kingdom, O LORD, and You are exalted as head over all.

Both riches and honor come from You, and You reign over all. In Your hand is power and might; in Your hand it is to make great and to give strength to all. (1 Chronicles 29:11-12 NKJV)

We honor God with our tenth and maintain our covenant by obediently giving to God by faith. We are saying, “I trust in You; I believe in You; You are the Most High God, the possessor of heaven and earth.”

“Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be food in My house, and try Me now in this” says the Lord of hosts. (Malachi 3:10a)

Tithe is ten percent of all your income (i.e. if your gross salary is $500 per week, your tithe would be $50 per week). This is “tithing from the top”, which is the “gross income—not net.” God expects us to be cheerful givers (2 Corinthians 9:6-15; Philippians 4:19). He wants us to give out of our relationship with Him. He has a special joy when we trust Him to supply our need.

It’s all about the Law of the Harvest. What you give out is what you will receive in return. You need to sow what you want to reap the most; place a demand on your seed (better health, increase in bank account, promotion on job). If you don’t like where you are, sow where you want to go. Don’t ever sow what you don’t want. Your seed must take root and develop a root system. Get rid of the roots of bitterness so that they do not come up and choke you. Also, sow privately and you will get rewarded openly. 

There is a seed time and there is a harvest time. Galatians 6:7-9 (NKJ) says” Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you. (Luke 6:38)

Offering is an amount above the tithe that you give. Typically there are three: regular seed offerings, covenant partners, and love offerings.

  1. Seed offerings are used to take care of the needs of the church.
  2.  Covenant offerings are totally dedicated for eliminating the debt. (Exodus 35:21)
  3. The love offering is an offering we give to the man of God (Senior Pastor) that is above our tithe and regular offering.

This offering is also a seed that is planted in the pastor’s life so that he will be able to take care of and provide for his personal needs and those of the family. It is one aspect of giving honor when honor is due. (Romans 13:7; 1 Timothy 5:17; 1 Corinthians 9:9-14) Some pastors receive this in lieu of a salary.

First fruit is an offering that goes to the Priest (Senior Pastor). We give a first fruit when we receive an increase or the first fruit of the promise of God. First fruit giving causes a blessing to rest on your business affairs. (Proverbs 3:9; Ezekiel 44:30) 

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How does one be confident and have peace. And try not to compare themselves to other people.
Last Post 18 Feb 2009 06:05 PM by Exclusively Engineered. 2 Replies.
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17 Dec 2008 09:48 PM  
I'm a 27 year old woman who struggles with low self-esteem sometimes.  People say i'm pretty but sometimes i dnt feel it and i wonder 'were they really meaning to me?' I really dnt feel confident until have what i need ( outward appearence wise ) and wanting to 'fit in' with my friends. They have this and that and ask God what about me. i have to struggle everyday to keep myself afloat. I have to consider this one in my family and that one in my family and i'm of course at the bottom (and thats even if i'm put myself on the list).  I tell God just about everyday to give that confidence within not worry what other people think because i know who i am and whose i am. I know i have to patient and wait on God so bear with me here please. 
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14 Jan 2009 05:00 AM  
caleigh...

i think that everyone struggles at some point in their life with low self-esteem and insecurities. i know i have. =] but today, at 18 yrs. old, i can smile about it. why? because God has brought me a very long way. i have to thank him for that, because at one point, i cared too much about what other people thought of me, what He thought of me, and what i thought of me didn't even matter! as long as other people thought i was good, then i was okay. but, i learned that i can't live MY life by OTHER PEOPLE's standards! it's awesome that you acknowledge God as your father, and you ask him to give you confidence within, it really is. and i believe that, slowly, but surely, you'll recieve that blessing. just continue to have faith. i believe in you.

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18 Feb 2009 06:05 PM  
Yes I also agree with Camara. We all at some point have struggled and/or are struggling with low-self esteem and insecurities. I think it somestimes comes from various situations and circumstances that may have taken place in our lives that caused us to second guess ourselves and our worth. Especially in cases of divorce, pregnancy, broken relationships etc... Which is why even when other people say we're pretty or we are good we can't see it at the time because we have placed focus on issues that have caused us to devalue who are. I encourage you Caliegh to continue to pray and ask God to show you the root cause of why you may be feeling like you are. One thing I encourage the youth at my church is to be honest with God about how you feel and know that He will understand but He will also give you the answers you need to help you get through your situation. I promise you once you get to the root of your low-self esteem and insecurtiy you will know what you need to do to change how you feel about yourself. At this point it is only about you and how you allow God to deliver you. It won't matter what anyone else says or thinks even if what they are saying is true. Until you come to the understanding of what is affecting Caliegh their words will be like water running off of a leaf. You may have went through some changes in your life where you forgot about you and in the process of forgetting about you, you left your feelings and emotions back at the beginning of the transition. This happens especially when we are trying to be strong for someone else, or we are trying to be a comfort for someone else. Confidence comes when we know who we are for real. Yes we are a child of God. But what is the self-defining person God has made you to be today. This is the person who's identity has been given to them by God and specifically for that person. Yes it's hard to see yourself moving forward if you are constantly looking at other people. The only thing we have to measure ourselves against is that of the Holy word. God has specifically given us a road map with examples and processes of keys to living a Christian life pleasing to Him if we follow what He says. Comparing ourselves to others only limits us from receiving that which God has destined for our lives to receive. Think about it this way (it worked for me), if your comparing yourself to others meant you would receive everything that person has; how do you know that those people are reaching the fullest potential or better yet, do you really want to have to go through all the trials and tribulations those people may have went through to get what they have and be where they are today. Now add that too the fact that just by design your life has its own trials and tests and to add the burden of what someone else has went through to that. Do you really think you could handle all of that? Now I know I couldn't. Being different or unique is not a bad thing. But you can only grasp hold to who you are suppose to be once you have allowed God to give you the understanding of who you are. And only you can know that with the help of the Lord. Then at that point you will be able to demand the respect of others for the new you and yet respect others for who they are; without feeling insecure because for the moment it may seem like they are better off than you are. Remember everybody has a season and seasons change. But how can you demand respect for a person you don't even know? We all especially myself have had to answer this question many many times. As our lives change we have to make sure that the identity that God has given us remains in tact. This is how those scriptures like "no weapon formed against me shall prosper" or "greater is He that is in me than he that is in the world" can truly benefit us. So many times we quote scriptures like it's nothing, but loose the true result of knowing them because we can't stay consistant in the person God has made us to be. So be encouraged my siser and know that God is waiting for you and He will be there to show you what you need to know and how to go about getting the most effective result that will help you grow and develop in your walk with Him. Be blessed and don't give up! I'm praying for you and I believe in you also.
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