My mom had been in a accident a few years ago and the last, the baby sibling the yougest sister had to step in cause I live out of town. My mom is on disability and retirement as well and has taken in her late sisters 2 daughters (teenagers). A few years go by and my mom also took in her parents, but my grandmother passed leaving my grandfather and still the 2 teenage girls. She also gets money for them as well from the govt to help with raising them. My mom is a spender. So much that she let her bills go and went back to drugs from the stress of loosing her Mom; and got evicted (foreclosure) from the home that she bought from a ex-boyfriend to be independant and have a place for any of her own 4 children to have. Now its all gone. Again, she neglected herself and never got a bad knee fixed and went back into surgery cause she could not walk on it. The youngest is now back to being the caretaker along with her one kid she has out of wed-lock. They are both hoping that i jeopardize my credit and my husbands to cosign for loans that i know they will not pay on time leaving us to never get out of our own apartment and we are both full time students who work. The youngest does not, only just works. I said no. I thought it was selfish cause the youngest got her credit messed up cause my mom did not give money back to pay down the cards she cosigned on and continued to spend on it! i am like why would i open that door cause you did not listen to what i told you about cosigning relative or not cause your credit is the on ruined for 7 years. They figured since we have no kids that we should just to do it. I am I wrong for cutting my mom out like that?? Christianity states i put my husband before her and I think they play that mind game of guilt just cause they gave birth to you its a automatic given. Mind you I never, since being on my own, making my own money since sixteen ask my mom for money. She can even tell you that, cause i have witnessed how she does you scratch mine i scratch yours tactics to her sisters. Am I am selfish?

Hello, Good daughter,Bad Daughter what did God say do? How would this place you and your husband in a situation if they did not pay this bill which you know that in fact they are not. We tend to ask questins in which we already know the answers to and lets be honest, "this kind comes through prayer and fasting. God Bless You, Arica